Challenges that Bewilder Me / Embarced when Frugal?

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When did it become a disgrace to be frugal? Today the way this family is saving and making ends meat are met with smiles but not to long ago some of my ideas were met with pity and a pat on the shoulder. I remember planning a simple birthday party for my daughter. We planned it at a park with a friends and the goal was to spend no more than $20. A friend was going to go in with me as our girls are best friends. The idea of going this simple was a struggle for my friend and her family. I couldn't go over my budget and my friend couldn't spend this little so she paid for the extra.